One day, a wife came to her husband with a magazine in her hand, "Darling, this article is wonderful. It describes a little activity that we can both do to improve our marriage. Can we do it together?"
"Sure," her husband said.
"It says here that for one day, each of us will separately write a list of what areas we want each other to change in Little annoyances, little irritations, etc. And then tomorrow, we share this list to each other. Deal?"
"Deal!" the husband smiled.
That day, the man sat in living room with paper and hand. the wife went to the bedroom and did the same thing.
The next day, over breakfast, the wife said, "Game? Can I start first?"
"Yes," the husband said.
The wife pulled out three pages. Single spaced. Font size 8. It was a long list. She began to read her list. "Darling, I don't like it when you do this..." On and on, she read the little ways her husbands annoyed her."
The man felt a sting in his heart. The wife noticed this and asked, "Do you want me to continue?"
"I can handle it. go on," the man said.
So the wife continued to read.
Finally, the women said, "OK, it's your turn."
The husband pulled out his piece of paper and said, "Yesterday, I asked the question what are the changes I want in you. But hard as I tried to think, I could'nt think of one thing." He then showed her the empty peice of paper in his hand. "Because to me, you're perfect in your imperfections. I've accepted who you are-- strengths and weaknesses. And I love the whole package. I love the mix. You are a wonderful person and I love you so much."
The wife began to sob, rolled up the three pages in her hands, and beat her husband on the head, "Bwiset ka!" And hugged him tight for a very long time.
How to Build a Happy Family
~Bo Sanchez
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